1) What we want.
2) How to get it.
3) Have the strength to go after it.
It's like how we used to talk about getting things done. There is a combination that needs to be present in the proper ratio. Time, the money to purchase the materials and or professional expertise, and the inspiration or creative imperative to put them together to accomplish the task. Applicable to art, music, building, training, a picnic in the park, social interaction, whatever.
If you want to do a triathlon, you had better swim some, bike lots and run a little. If you want to add a DIY wing to your house you had better learn some carpentry, electric and plumbing skills. If you want to journey a thousand miles, take the first step. If you want to lose ten pounds, eat more grapes and less steak, more water, less beer. Take the time to move your body more, buy a mountain bike, choose to create a new you.
1) Time.
2) Money (or a skill to barter)
3) Inspiration.
In other words, we need to know what, how and then (most importantly) have the gumption and guts to go get it. Will power, fortitude, focus, dedication, desire, commitment, courage, endurance, motivation. They all play a part. Some folks are more motivated than others, some more courageous, others have the ability to stay focused when the goal gets blurry.
Sometimes we get frustrated and angry. Sometimes we opt to numb the pain. Sometimes we take shortcuts. Sometimes we quit, give up, seek something easier. Dummy down.
Have you ever felt overwhelmed by the scope of a project? When the task appears impossible or unobtainable? Too much to do. Too big a job. Too hard. Where to start? When? How?
Here are a couple of heavy hitters that I like a lot. Brian Johnson's Philosophers Notes leans on some of the ideas of David K. Reynolds and in the video William Glasser. And Byron Katie has helped thousands (including the RCVman) with difficult personal situations.
Is it true?
You sure?
So what?
What now?
I have been feeling pretty backed-up the last few days. There is a ton of work piled high on my plate and I have allowed the fuse to burn shorter and shorter. There have been detours, potholes, setbacks and negativity. Recalibration is in order.
What do I want?
How do I get it?
Do I have the power?
Is it true?
Really?
Then what?
Turn it around.
What needs to be done NOW?
Thank you. Gotta go.
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